This poem by Rumi perfectly expresses the approach that I take in working with each client, "Reconciling Differences from the Inside Out."
This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they are a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice.
meet them at the door laughing and invite them in.
Be grateful for whatever comes.
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.
— Jelaluddin Rumi, translation by Coleman Barks
In fact, as within so without. In welcoming all aspects of ourselves and our experience, we expand our ability to offer the same loving acceptance to those we encounter in our day-to-day lives, all are welcome and bring gifts that may not be immediately evident. Regardless, we embrace each and everyone.